Someone's Wife

I hope I never get "used" to this. But in the last few months, I have been surprised by people calling me So-and-so's "Wife."

A medical student came up to me and said "Hey, aren't you Armand's Wife??"
Well. No. Not wife yet. and I have a name. Hi, I'm Vivian.

and then a wedding invitation came in the mail addressed to:
"Dr. Armand Ryden and Vivian"
Uhh, seriously?!? Now I don't even have a last name? And shouldn't it be Drs.?!? ahem, ahem!